I believe clear expectations are essential in any working relationship and in the spirit of clarity, I’d like to share my boundaries when working with my clients.

I will not tell you what to do.

I will ask nuanced questions, suggest options, and offer pathways, then respect your sovereignty to choose what you think right for you.

I will not dispense pearls of wisdom and expect you to string them.

I will offer resources, complementary methodologies, and any other information to which I have access or background for you to consider.

I will not parent you.

I will partner with you.

I will not claim your successes as my own or share your story without consent.

I will celebrate your success with enthusiasm and offer the opportunity to serve as an ambassador to others.

I will not make myself available 24/7.

I will provide clear boundaries, keep commitments, and make myself as accessible as possible throughout our time together.

I will not solve your problems for you or offer quick fixes.

I will provide tools and techniques for you to solve your problems.

I will not always show up perfectly.

I will own my own experience, perspectives, and choices.

I will not accept projections upon me, judgements as facts, or deferred authority.

I will embrace authenticity, hold space for judgements and messy delivery, hear best intentions, and maintain positive regard.

I will not enter a client engagement, or stay in one I determine is a poor fit, just to get paid.

I will give my energy and best service to my clients, respect their right to end the relationship, and expect fair and timely compensation.

I will not heroically try to take on your feelings or feel them for you.

I will hold space and support you in anything you feel for as long as you need to feel or sense it, and then support you when you are ready to move.

I will not try to change you.

I will hold up a mirror (even when it might be painful) to your shadows so you can evolve at your own pace through your own choices.

If any of this violates one of your boundaries, I respect that and with all my heart wish you every possible success with someone else.

If you are ready to evolve or would like to start a conversation I look forward to connecting and hope to hear from you soon!